So as some of you know I am really not really huge into feelings in public. With that being said behind close doors I am needy and I love the attention on me and only me. (I can be a little too needy) So I started to read a book as of late and I found myself unable to stop reading...I stayed up late and woke up early just to read the next line. It was about a man and women (of course a love story) who find themselves unable to let go of each other, wanting the others company more then they knew was possible. I guess my point as to why I am explaining this to you is.....PASSION!
Do all married couples find themselves so comfortable with each other, knowing each others every reaction to things that the simple draw to one another is gone???? Over the last few years I probably would have answered that with a auto response yes, as of late I would like to believe that a few minor changes and that answer would be NO!
Do us women think about things a lot more in detail about our love life then men? I would think so, unless you are one of the few lucky ones that you man acts as if he comes straight out of a romance novel.(Not sure I could handle that...ahh on to my next point)
Could I handle a man that acts as if he was written by the details of a dream life of a women? I don't know but some how sitting down and thinking about it I am happy to say I am happy with my Husband. He might not buy me flowers or for that matter anything but He knows the right moment to make me smile or laugh, he knows the right moment to remind me of who I am and why I love him and not a character out of a romance novel.
So maybe our love life isn't as it once was but is that not life? Is that not the near means of married to test all your limits and somehow find a way to stay in that seat until the ride of "life" is done??? I think so, I think GOD tests us at every corner with every bump or shift to make sure we are where we want to be or where he wants us to be!
OK I am done now before I start to rumble on and on!!!!!
Love Always
Sarah
I think love just changes after awhile. Things that were really important in the beginning aren't really so much as time goes on. But they are probably replaced by other important things too. So I hope that's what you were looking for. I couldn't handle Joe if he was out of a romance novel because that's not who I married.
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